Always remember that it’s the friendship that you two have that brought you together and fell in love with one another. As the love blossomed, you felt that you needed to make it official by declaring to your loved ones and the world at large that this love ‘we’ feel is real! & before Allah, your family and friends, we witnessed and blessed you both in holy matrimony!
My advice to both of you as your big sister is NEVER lose that friendship you have! No matter what! For you are best of friends for life! That friendship brought about love... Love for one another & love as you will come to realize is about making compromises through communication. Always communicate!..., your feelings, thoughts, desires, dreams, hopes, fears, anxiety, you name it!
Misunderstandings? Yes, you will have them but don’t take long to iron them out and don’t make them too often. You will have your low days and equally high days, which you would be glad to share with your best friend and life partner.
I wish you both a prosperous long and happy married life, blessed with many children. Inshallah Mola awajalie maisha marefu. This is just the beginning. Don’t let us down but make US ALL WHO witnessed and blessed your marriage proud of you! Welcome to the family my dear Mwanarusi and make me proud bro, for you are a man now!
